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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]		I don’t know op, you were a jerk to clear his plate when he hadn’t even had a chance to eat. It’s like you said “thanks cook” instead of treating him like a beloved spouse. Then instead of enjoying the family walk where you could have looked at wildlife or people with their dogs, you start in on him again. If I was him, that’d be the last dinner I ever cooked, and the last family walk I ever went on with you.  And, you did this all in front of his mom too. Why? 
As for the “delayed eating”, wtf is that? That would be called “being rude” at my house. If a kid wants to wash hands, go potty or even get a tv show on they like that’s fine, what isn’t fine is to not eat when food is served and then call it a fancy name. 
Say what you will about your husband, it is very possible for one parent to make it impossible for the other parent to well, parent, very much how it only takes one person to ruin a marriage, or how a spouses friend can really lead the two of you to break up. My guess is that if you did the cooking, this “delayed eating” by your daughter would be a thing of the past real quick. It’s easy to be nice when you haven’t or don’t or won’t lift a finger.

As for you, get your nonsense together, ADD, depression and anxiety, op, you’ve got all your bases covered haven’t you. 
Nothing worse than having an adult who won’t do basic adult things, then cries and pouts about it. Anybody would loose it in that situation. 
Maybe you can go live with your husband’s mom, op. You seem to like her. [/quote]

Your assessment isn't wrong. OP clearly has work to do abd they have an unhealthy cycle going on. But I have a problem with the way DH reacts. Feel free to get angry, irritated, etc. But that doesn't excuse verbal abuse. Never acceptable.[/quote]

I take back my agreement with your assessment. I went back.and read the original post. She didn't throw away his food...he said he was done! I'm back on OPs side 100%[/quote]

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