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[quote=Anonymous]OP I’m with you but the abusivr parent was more my dad. In my early 40s the mis life crisis hit hard including understanding my dad molested me and how that impacted my first romantic relationship. I had panic attacks for years without understanding why so I completely understand where you are.

I stayed with my husband though I started doing solo hikes and took a few vacations without my husband to get some space. Now nearing 48 I am much more relaxed and calm about it all.

Those weren’t lost years OP or I don’t see them as that now for myself I had to survive and learn to adult as best I could without parental or family back up. I did it and now I look back and see that as the survivor me.: something to be proud of, not hide.

When I’m feeling like you my favorite song it Tracy Chapman’s At this Point in my Life because it is so beautiful at modeling how to say I sucked and will suck again but right now in this moment I’m still trying and accepting the love I have been given and will give is imperfect. This may not help you, but I hope you find something that gives you peace. The struggle is in you you do you and give your DH room to adapt to the grown you. [/quote]

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