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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For the picky eating you can post the rules in the fridge.[/quote]

OP here, and they are on the fridge. There's also a bin in the pantry with all the foods she eats and laminated guides for preparing dishes (these are for her because she's supposed to help us prepare her meals or do it herself, but I mean he is welcome to consult them).[/quote]

So when he says "he doesn't know how to feed her," what do you say and what is his response? I was originally assuming he was acting in good faith but clearly he is not.[/quote]

I'll say "did you check the list/look in the bin?" And he'll say "oh yeah that didn't occur to me."

Then he'll look at the list and/or look in the bin, and he'll say to DD "okay what do you want, do you want rice and peanut sauce?" And she'll say no and he'll look at me and say "I don't know, I don't know what I'm supposed to give her."

It's maddening.[/quote]

The parentifying the little kid or tween is immature and irritating AF too. 
Hey Little Kid:  should we do, what should we eat, where should we go, what should be buy for present, what should you wear?

And then sit back, do nothing, eat garbage, buy cheap krap on Amazon in and Temu, and underdress for the weather.

No judgment or parenting skills. [/quote]

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