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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should let him know that you found out.
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You should then ask him to ask his sister if you can go.[/b]

Respect the answer you get back.

If you aren't invited, there's a reason, and crashing is wrong.  Who knows what it is.  But it's the wedding couple's day, and a respectful person would not seek to detract from it.

This might mean your SIL has permanently written off your relationship.  But so what.  If you are already estranged it doesn't really matter if you are not there.[/quote]

Don't do that. You aren't invited. Do not go. [/quote]

Nope---you ask.  This isn't some 2nd cousin twice removed.  This is her husband's sister.  If he's invited, she should be invited as well, unless there has been a complete falling out and in that case her husband should not be going either. [/quote]

Obviously there was a falling out. Come on. The sister has her boundaries and SIL is not welcome. OP should respect this and let her SIL have her day. She can get her revenge later by pretending not to know SIL is married so she can keep the rift going.[/quote]

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