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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It honestly made me feel uncomfortable. My drink was just a basic two ingredient cocktail. I think I look pretty normal and forgettable. I made sure to pay cash because I didn’t want him taking down my name and then social media or Google stalking me.[/quote]

Did you get drunk when you went to several weeks ago? Do you feel insecure about the amount of drinks that you ordered? I sense that some sort of specious element here.[/quote]

Just one drink. Tipped normally, nothing too low or too high. Nothing about my brief visit was memorable. I do not want to be remembered and treated like a barfly on a first name basis with any server. I don’t want to be served like “oh, the usual?” [b]It is not courteous, it is rude to conduct yourself like this to a woman in a drinking establishment. And it is a little creepy to remember woman and her drink when she briefly visited several weeks ago.[/b][/quote]

OP, you get to feel how you want to feel.

You don't get to decide what is commonly understood to be rude or creepy.  As you have been told, nothing the bartender did was inappropriate.  In fact, if not generally neutral behavior it is good service.  You may not like it, that is fine.  But the bartender did nothing wrong.[/quote]

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