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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cringe. Just give them money, don't fly your junk half way around the world. Anecdote: About 18 years ago my wife and I spent the winter in Kenya. We were based at an orphanage where we volunteered, and I also volunteered with an engineering NGO. After a few months we realized that ALL of the things we were doing at the orphanage could be done better by locals who needed jobs. So I asked the orphanage director point blank: Is it more effective for us to stay, or to just go and leave you the money we would otherwise spend to stay at the orphanage cottage, meals, etc. He squirmed a bit, but answered me honestly: the money would be more effective. So we made a donation and went home. It is often selfish to do good in a way that feels good. [b] It is much truer to do good in a way that IS good. Anonymous is best if you can.[/b][/quote] This THIS THIS. My grandfather drilled that into me: true charity is anonymous. Everything else is done for self.[/quote] From Bishop Hooker, 450 years ago: "The best things we do have somewhat in them to be pardoned." And why Jesus counsels that we do our giving in secret.[/quote] +1 My favorite example is those who have to post how/when they volunteer. Talk about missing the point entirely. [/quote]
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