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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]oof, seems like a good time to roll out the ol' "opinions are like a**holes" but genuinely, sometimes I like "what was the point of that response?" or "can you talk me through your thinking here?"[/quote] Asking them to explain is just inviting them to rationalize their rudeness. I had a friend who was really rude to me. Next time I saw her, she approached me "to talk," but really she just wanted the chance to explain why she said what she said which in effect was her rationalizing her nastiness. I think asking them to talk you through it is just being disingenuous because they will understand it as a sincere attempt to understand their thinking. When in reality you probably already know... they say rude things because they're as&holes. [/quote]
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