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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]When you call other women "sluts" (even indirectly, like you did because you did not have the courage to do so directly) for the choices they make, you are trying to tell everyone that you are superior to them, even though you have no idea what their lives are like. You are proving that women, more than men, try to demean other women for their lifestyle choices.

You might be undesirable to most men and, as a result, would not have any chance to "slutting it up" if you were not married.
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[quote]In many cultures, divorce is highly frowned upon. A woman of any age being promiscuous would be looked down at. A woman who is old and still doing this is sad.

You may feel hot and sexy. Would your kids or parents approve of your lifestyle?[/quote]

Sadly, in many cultures, women can be killed for having relationships outside of marriage (e.g., relationships when they are not married) or relationships that the male members of her family did not approve of the family. I would not stand for that kind of abuse, and I am ashamed that you would.

Stick to American culture here on the DCUM board. We have rights here, and if you believe that these cultures are better for women then return to them ASAP.

Are you the judge of who and who is not promiscuous in our culture? Do you believe that women who are 50+ (or 40+) are old? How old are you?

The most sickening part of your post is your comment regarding what my children or parents think of my lifestyle. What kind of world do you live in where you share the details of your dating life with either group? Do your children tell you who to date? Do your parents? My feelings about my sexiness are my business and something I do not share with my family.

However, do you require either group's approval to date someone?[/quote]

There are certain divorced women on here, not necessarily you, who always advise people to divorce. They make divorce sound liberating and the best and better than marriage.

I grew up in America. We hang with mostly all families. The divorced people often seem to have constraints. In the beginning, we would continue to invite them as we did when the couple was married but the meetings are less and less frequent. They may go on  about various men like a horny teen. It is not a good look.[/quote]

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