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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"How wrong is it if I leave this 100% to DH to being the kids on HIS time?"

OP, it's interesting how you have phrased this whole situation. It's an "me against them" mindset which is a dangerous river to wade in.

Not only are your kids watching your pettiness, but your DH is as well. If you view family as something that should be cleanly fractured as "his side" and "your side," you may find yourself in a fractured marriage too.

Explain that to your kids. [/quote]

Um it sounds like DH himself created that dynamic when he didn't take the kids so his wife could visit her parents in their time of need, nor did he take the kids to see his ILs in their time of need. So...[/quote]
Can you finish your sentence that starts with "so...".  So, what?  [/quote]

NP. Are you dim? Please finish your answer to that genuine question. PP is saying that DH started the dynamic you accuse OP of creating. Nope, her parents were sick first, and he did nothing to help or to watch the kids, and MIL then complained. Welp, now that the shoe is on the other foot, no one gets to cry foul when OP does the exact same thing DH already did: nothing. [/quote]

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