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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I empathize with you. I think it’s reasonable to have your feelings slightly hurt that a person you felt close enough friends with to invite to your medium sized recent wedding did not originally care enough about your friendship to include you in the A list (let alone reciprocate your recent invitation). I get all the tricky things about obligatory family invites and if you include this one, you have to include these three, etc. But at the end of the day brides do get to choose which friends they want and with a large guest list, she surely had space for some friends and chose others. And rubbed it in the face of folks she excluded by posting on social media.

All that being said, I think she still considers you a friend. She probably has no issue with you or your friendship, she just has other people she feels closer to. There’s nothing wrong with that. I think you can still totally go, knowing this friend is a little tacky and rude. We all have flaws and I have friends who do things that annoy me (canceling plans with dumb excuses, things like that), and I can either choose to accept them knowing that, or decide it’s a dealbreaker. You can decide if this is your dealbreaker or not. [/quote]

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