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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]State that you would like to get married at the courthouse next week.

If you separate now, you’ll get child support and that’s it. [/quote]

So I would get child support?  This seems unclear to me because I’m not married.[/quote]

You absolutely 100% will get child support, but no property or “marital funds” as you are unmarried.

What matters the most to you?  Can you get a job? [/quote]

She would get child support for ONE child…

She has 3 children.

And she wouldn’t even get to keep the car she drives because it’s in his name. She would have no transportation and no housing since he owns the house she lives in. Even the most generous child support would still leave her VERY financially vulnerable.

I am curious. What’s the custody situation with the older children? Is their dad involved? Does he pay child support? Is he in the same state? [/quote]

I have full custody.  He pays child support monthly.

I have talked to my fiancé and when I tell him I’m not happy he tells me to leave.  He has told me to leave on several occasions.  Agree I’m trapped and could be homeless soon.  [/quote]

OP listen to the fake it till you make it poster above. This man will never marry you. You have no power to complain here. Suck it up, pretend to be happy, stop complaining. You are dependent and he has no respect for you. He sees you as a child. Which you basically are. Your goal is to stay as long as you can putting on a show and letting him support you at least until your older two are in college. Meanwhile get a degree that can get you a job eventually and hope he doesn’t evict you (which he might) before then.[/quote]

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