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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1) DADT
2) open marriage
3) escorts
4) accept it
5) divorce
6) other?

What's your gender and your spouse's gender?[/quote]

Woman married to a man.  If I was no longer interested in sex for a limited time (illness, depression, physical limitation) I would want him to accept it and tough it out.  I would do the same for him and it feels like a pretty obvious part of the vows we took.

If I just decided that the sex phase of my life was over (hard to imagine, but I have seen some crazy stuff on these boards) I would want him to first and foremost not knock anyone up.  I think I'd want either escorts or a semi-DADT situation where he can get some but not "date" and fall for someone.  Again - hard to imagine, but in a world where I wanted to remain married I would not want him to fall in love with someone outside of our marriage.  And I would be 100% against him using viagra or something in these escapades.  If nature turns both of our libidos off at the same time then he doesn't have a legitimate complaint.  Using pharmaceuticals to get it up while complaining your wife doesn't have a sex drive anymore to accommodate yours just makes no sense to me.[/quote]

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