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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He probably decided he didn’t want another relationship. Very common. A lot of good men like that consciously check out from that path. They value peace and don’t want the hassle of pleasing impossible women. [/quote]

NP. Stow the ugly and obvious judgement, PP. What a jerk response to an OP who clearly cares about what happens to another person. You have zero reason to think she was "impossible" during their marriage. Your post smacks of projection of issues of your own.

To the OP: It's good that you and he maintained such a cordial relationship and that he got (and kept) his act together re: raising the daughter you share. I'd encourage her to be sure to maintain good contact with him when she's away at college; that can fall off college students' radar, quite understandably as they get so busy, so it can't hurt to remind her (if she needs it). Does he have any hobbies that you know of? Any groups, classes, house of worship, volunteering, anything that he or your DD might have mentioned? If she was his world outside of work, you can only hope he might get involved in something now that she is going to college and you are moving away. If you know of an interest he has and can casually mention you heard about some organization/group/whatever involved in that interest, it might be a start. Yes, he's an adult and you divorced for a reason, but so many years later there's nothing wrong with a mention of something you think might interest him. [/quote]

It was actually a very real response and you could switch genders.[/quote]

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