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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Makes no sense why you are this focused on him 10-15 years post divorce.

Unless he was parentifying your daughter, ie she had to be HIS emotional support adult, check on his meals, routine, health, all during high school, there is not a problem.

FYI- there IS a problem if he is leaning on her too much. 
I know a divorced dad who would eat dinner at his mom’s house because the nurse there cooked daily, did his/her laundry, and made sure he wasn’t losing it. When the elderly mom died, guess what? The divorced dad tried to move in with his newlywed son. They said I, he threw a fit and moved next door, and is still demanding his son’s new wife make him dinner, do his laundry, check or clean his apartment.

Sad. The dependency is not right for a young adult and not healthy or functional for a 50+ yo father.

He needs to be healthy and independent. Not the opposite.

Make sure your daughter knows the difference. [/quote]

I love when people make up backstories. [/quote]

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