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Reply to "tell me about your marriage if both spouses have untreated ADHD"
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[quote=Anonymous]Am agreeing with the below Pp: “‘ Happy to hear this is working out but money and willingness to set up coping mechanisms like this is probably the biggest factor to success…we do twice a month deep cleaning but having someone taking care of household task (huge stressor for those with adhd) 12-16 days a month is insane but awesome. Add in lawn care window cleaning and all the tedious non-preferred tasks costs money but also allows things to run more smoothly. Even flowers! Amazing…seriously no snark. Have an independent third person do the travel planning is a really good tip (another adhd stressor) and might even save you money because it is easy to forget to book something until last minute which ends up costing more. In sum, gotta have money and spend it on way to offload tasks that are easy for adhd people to forget to make things work well or … both partners need personalities with a lot of patience, understanding, laughter and go with the flow or you might get explosive fights or pent up resentment… ‘“[/quote]
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