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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would ask that he stay elsewhere for his recovery day and count that as a vacation day. For the PP who suggested that was toxic bean counting, I disagree. The idea of stepping away from my family for a long weekend to go have fun and leave DH with all the childcare duties is a big deal. I've done it a few times but it's not something we just do, and every day really does count. Seems a lot less toxic to call it a 4-day trip instead of a 3-day trip, and avoid the resentment over that final day. Then when the wife is considering her trip she doesn't have to feel bad or guilty taking the extra day also. [/quote] +1 The people who call this bean counting are the ones who always take a mile when given an inch, and then accuse their partners of being petty when their partners ask for the same consideration. [/quote]
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