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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would ask that he stay elsewhere for his recovery day and count that as a vacation day.  For the PP who suggested that was toxic bean counting, I disagree.  The idea of stepping away from my family for a long weekend to go have fun and leave DH with all the childcare duties is a big deal.  I've done it a few times but it's not something we just do, and every day really does count. Seems a lot less toxic to call it a 4-day trip instead of a 3-day trip, and avoid the resentment over that final day.  Then when the wife is considering her trip she doesn't have to feel bad or guilty taking the extra day also. [/quote]
I agree not a bad idea i feel the coming home hung over from your guy trip ugh cringe lol. Then demanding or taking a day to recover is such a turn off. Am i wrong ?[/quote]

DP. I agree it’d be a turn off but if just once or twice a year I’d deal. This is assuming alcohol is not otherwise an issue in our marriage.

That said I’m SO glad the guys’ trips my DH goes on are with other married dads and they do stuff like skiing, hiking, etc. They like to go on nature trips vs boozing vacations. Also, sometimes they take the kids with them to go on camping trips.

I take girls’ trips too. Usually for a spa weekend or to a fun city to see shows/eat at cool restaurants.[/quote]

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