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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d watch for a pattern but if it’s really out of character and he is a good husband and father, I’d find some grace and be patient with him. Assume it’s temporary and stop exacerbating the situation. If it becomes a pattern, then seek help from a counselor and schedule a doctor appointment for him - could be low testosterone levels or something else. My husband is a dick a lot (ADHD) so I experience that type of behavior weekly and it’s exhausting. I’m sorry it’s been a hard week.[/quote]

Thank you, I appreciate this advice and other responses.  I'm sitting here at my desk not getting any work done and just stewing, and trying to stop myself from going back over to him and reopening everything.  The thought of going in and assuming we're on for dinner together and acting like he didn't curse me out is also totally unappealing, but I will try to swallow my pride and open up the outing as a chance to talk.  Testosterone levels would have never occurred to me, but good to know.[/quote]

Oh boy, you are looking at this all wrong.

You don't have to act like he did nothing, but you also don't need to go in guns ablazing and list all the things he did without acknowledging what you did.

I would leave the Testosterone issue out of it for now, because it sounds like you are so convinced that you are right and he is wrong here, and that's not actually the case.[/quote]

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