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[quote=Anonymous]No cleaning company will clean out a hoard unless you are the property owner. Do you have ownership? If it belongs to your mother, she needs to give you POA to authorize the company. I know this because my parents were hoarders and while they were alive I couldn't get anyone to come clean without their permission (which my mother wouldn't give). I even had one of those "experts" from Hoarders who was a friend of a friend try to help and talk to my parents. But unless you own the house, the company won't clean and haul away because they can get sued. Re hoarding sibling badmouthing you, they are going to do it, so accept that and don't worry about it. There is NOTHING you can say or do that will turn the light bulb on for them and have an a-ha moment where they see the rational in changing their ways. There will be no thank you. Nothing. It is what it is as they say. So go into this with your eyes open. [/quote]
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