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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay. Do I tell the hoarder the date for the junk haulers? If not, they will call me multiple times a day to scream at me. And do I care at all if sibling tracks down the junk haulers to get the stuff back? They might try that. [/quote] Sure, tell them the date, mostly so they can’t say later that you lied t them by not telling them. Nope, don’t care at all if they get the stuff back for themselves. The important thing is to get the house sold before there are tax consequences for your elderly parent. [/quote] This. Hoarding is a mental illness issue and I feel bad for anyone that has it, but the truth here is that it's a secondary concern to the care or/resources for the elderly parent. The hoarder isn't going to voluntarily get the stuff out and you'll be messing around with this forever. Just rip the band aid and get it done.[/quote]
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