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[quote=Anonymous][quote]This would be a marital dealbreaker for me. I’m not giving up my financial future for my inlaws or my own parents. Downsizing is not a reason to subsidize them. Now, keeping them from being homeless — that I would support. But that doesn’t sound like what is happening. It is totally fair for you to push back on this.[/quote] Yep. OP, were I you I would seriously consider divorce over this. His agreeing to do this without consulting you is just an enormously disrespectful marital act---but it tells you exactly where you and the kids stand with him. With divorce, you would then have the legal right to force your DH to prioritize supporting his own family. I would also lay into my in-laws without compunction about their financial fecklessness. [/quote]
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