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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I saw a comment to the effect of “Polyamory is the enjoyment of torturing [or being tortured by] your partner. The inflicting of pain is a part of the fetish.” Emotional sadomasochism by the world’s least hottest people on display. Please go back behind closed doors, we are begging you![/quote] Yes, this is what it’s always sounded like to me. Even with cheating the victim can claim they were wronged and be justified in feeling jealousy, resentment etc. The author discusses battling feelings of betrayal and jealousy as though they shouldn’t be felt and are something to simply “get over”. These couples are tormenting themselves, it sounds so depressing and anxiety inducing. If I wanted to have sex with multiple partners I’d get a divorce. Sex with multiple partners is not worth destroying my self esteem and mental health. Living this way sounds like a constant uphill battle and an exhausting display of self deceit. [/quote]
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