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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A marriage needs maintenance. I’d start with a weekly date night - you don’t have to go out, but on that designated night, he is not on his pc from 8-11 pm & is doing something with you. Can be literally anything - a show you can watch together, play video games, cook something for tomorrow, work on a little home improvement project - anything that you two agree to do together.

Commit to doing this together every Wed night or whatever day you choose for 8 wks.

If he balks at that, then marriage counseling. [/quote]

op here. i have tried this but he won't do anything that requires us to leave the kids home alone. if we watch TV or a movie, he will cut it short or ask me if an hour is enough because he's tired or some other excuse. it sounds awful as I am writing this out. [/quote]

also, this is a different issue, but every time I try to put a simple decoration on the door, he takes it down because he thinks it will damage the door. he's paranoid about damaging stuff. doesn't like when I hang art. he sucks all the joy out of me. I recently put up a V-day decoration, and he took it down. our door is glass but a lot of the neighbors put up stuff.  [/quote]

Ok you buried the lede OP. Your husband has issues, you need a therapist, he needs a therapist, none of this is normal.

Was he always this way?[/quote]

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