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[quote=Anonymous]For some anecdata, my dad allegedly came home and told my mom he accepted a job that entailed a cross country move when my sister and I were toddlers. Things ended badly. My now ex interviewed for a job in Thailand(!!) without telling me. Similar results. This being DCUM, the conclusion will be that my mom and I both have “bad pickers” (true for me, not for her, she’s happily remarried). But both events were ominous. You know your marriage OP. This wouldn’t fly with me. Not because I need or think I deserve vetoe power. But because we are a family and share our lives. Have you discussed your feelings with H? Was this out of the blue or is this a pattern? Has division of labor eroded in your marriage and this is further evidence of a feeling of loss of respect, or is it a one-off? [/quote]
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