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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]no excessive communication or penpal behavior and we had [b]2 pleasant dates[/b]. [/quote]

Attractive men have a pipeline of Tinder matches, and many first- and second-dates.  Around one-fourth of online daters have sex on the first or second date, and around half on the third, fourth, or fifth.

https://theblog.okcupid.com/a-digital-decade-sex-c95e6fb6296b

In other words, 25% of his successful matches have already had sex by now, and another 50% have been talking, flirting, and making their interest clear.  After the second date, attraction should be a foregone conclusion, and it is just a matter of comfort and logistics before physical intimacy is imminent.  It sounds like he is choosing more promising opportunities because he doesn't know where he stands with you.

The ball is in your court.  Text him a sexy selfie saying "thinking of you".  That is what your competition probably did last week.

Men are not mind-readers.  Your savvy competition kisses goodnight on the first date.  She follow up quickly with a text that says she had a nice time.  On the second date, she makes her interest unmistakable.  You might call her an excessive communicator or a brazen hussy.  He might soon call her his girlfriend.[/quote]

As a woman I [b]have no interest in men who sleep with 1/4 of his successful dates . [/b]Who wants to be one in line to be chosen intimately ? [/quote]

Sure you do. You just want him to only have 4 successful dates during the months you are getting to know him. 
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It’s actually pretty hard to have 4 really successful dates within a month. Even if one results in sex that doesn’t guarantee that the man stops pursuing or drops for his one night stand a woman that he is seeing more attractive but who is not yet ready for sex with him. Attractive women also have several pursuers and take time to decide with whom to sleep. At some point the true attraction will match. One night stands will fall off his radar.  [/quote]

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