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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate what Nicole has done to her face, I don't think it is an improvement on what natural aging would have done especially since she is so fair and stays out of the sun. She would have done better to choose the path of Helen Mirren and Judi Dench, et al. As to her weight in those photos - it's insane that anyone is calling her too thin or anorectic. She has plenty of muscle and fat pad over it in those photos. Her body looks like mine did from my teens until my late 20s, before I allowed myself to surrender to stress and emotional eating and gained a ton like so many American women do today. If I still had the same body shape I did in my 20s now in my 50s, I would look and feel fantastic - just as Nicole does. The bitter truth is that this board is full of overweight and obese women (and men) who hate what they've allowed to happen to their bodies through their own poor choices, and feel compelled to attack someone who put the effort in to stay in the healthy weight range for her height even as she aged into her middle 50s. The only ugly and derangement going on here is from those posters, not Nicole Kidman. And for the record - I've worked with eating disordered people for years. I know what anorexia looks like. Kidman is not that.[/quote] Just to add - the healthy approach would be to look at Kidman (or Aniston, or JLo, et al.) and say, clearly it is physiologically possible to stay lean and fit well into middle age and beyond, so I need to either accept wholeheartedly that I am choosing to be fat, or get off my ass, shut off the streaming service and the doom and judgment scrolling and get myself out for walks, weight training, and learning to eat a healthy nourishing diet while I nourish my mental crap with something other than food and alcohol. [/quote]
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