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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]do you mean that you and he agreed to meet ... and then he didn't show up?[/quote]

OP is ambiguous with us, and avoids "excessive communication" with dates too. Things fizzled out because playing hard-to-get is a bad strategy.

Women flake much more than men, because it is low-cost.  Women just sit back and reject men until they get an offer they like.  If women are tired, or there is bad weather, or they get a better offer, then they just flake or outright stand a man up.

Men must actively manage online dating, spend much more time and money, and endure much more rejection.  Even on Bumble, men are the pursuers.  Men must make 100 swipes to get 10 matches, and then send 10 messages to start parallel conversations to get 1 date.  After wading through all the ghosts and flakes, men get accustomed to cutting their losses.  They don't want to waste their time and money on unenthusiastic women when their phone is processing a fresh batch of swipes.

It is a bad equilibrium.  Men get treated poorly, so they make low investment across a large number of women online.  Then women get messages from losers.[/quote]

With all that exercise swiping hundreds of profiles, your finger should've developed enough dexterity and endurance to please a woman by now. [/quote]

:lol:

Yet I suspect he uses that dexterity only on himself. [/quote]

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