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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, when I online dated, I treated it like a second job. It’s grueling. I see you give up after 2 weeks. That’s not enough time to develop the relationships. I met my spouse online, and we didn’t click until the fourth date.  We’d chatted for a month before that. It was about two months of attention until I suddenly got excited about him.

One way to keep your spirits up is to remember that you’re valuable without a man. While I was OLD, I was also investing in weekly therapy to learn that. If you’re feeling desperate, the guys will notice, and that’s not attractive.[/quote]

I agree with this PP as I treated OLD like a favorite hobby. I tried to do it once a week, and I picked a favorite place in my neighborhood that was within walking distance, in my case, Barcelona, that I always suggested. I also always suggested meeting for happy hour there so dates wouldn't impact my sleep/next day. I had a first date outfit that I wore every time and did my hair and make up the exact same way so I didn't have to expend any energy trying to figure out what to wear. If a first date led to more dates, I viewed them as opportunities to try out new neighborhoods and restaurants/bars for free because the guys always insisted on paying. I also tried to view not so great dates as a source for funny stories to share with friends. It was also really fun if another friend was going on a date, and we could get ready to together. Good luck! [/quote]

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