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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you gotta step back. I have five siblings and am well versed in sibling boundaries. I’m surprised you don’t get it. You actually need to not make things about you even if they relate to you. She is overwhelmed and just wants to talk about her problems. If you can’t handle that, set your own boundary. But don’t deny that speaking of your own distress doesn’t cause a burden on her. The appropriate response re your brother would have been, “whoa that sucks. Im sorry that it’s worked out that way.” Furthest you can go is “I hope it gets better.” She doesn’t need or want your emotional burden. I don’t think you have kids and therefore are clueless. Good luck. [/quote]
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