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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People are misunderstanding and completely misusing this phrase.

People who dont understand it are (apparently) using it to mean "I like sex a lot". It's more about being open and nonjudgemental and wanting to explore consensual activities with their partner. [/quote]
+1 I see it as “I may already have a kink and don’t want to be shamed for it, plus I may want to look for other possible kinks with you.”[/quote]

It’s such a turn-off to wear that as a label though. I can like sex and even have kinks without having to join some kind of affinity group. My best lovers would never have pasted that label on themselves. [/quote]

Did you meet your best lovers via OLD?  And did you talk about sex / preferences before you became lovers?  Or just dove in?[/quote]

Why would I talk about it? It’s not like I need to read the reviews on Amazon. Is this why the kids these days aren’t having enough sex?

The issue with OLD is indeed that you can’t tell how much chemistry you have compared to meeting in person. But putting a Tik Tok label on yourself doesn’t solve that - it makes it worse, as if sex is something like a job interview. [/quote]

Are you asking why you would talk about sex with the person you’re having sex with?  Or about to have sex with?  Pause and think about this.

If you were going on a date with someone - going out to eat - wouldn’t you ask about food preferences?  Aversions?  [/quote]

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