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[quote=Anonymous]I come from a broken family. I always felt my father hated being a husband/father and my mother, despite being nice and making the best so I could have everything possible, was never very lovable herself and only "did it" because she was expected to. I don't remeber being hugged nor listened one "I love you" from her EVER.

So, I always knew having kids wasn't something EVERYBODY should do. And during my 20's I decided I wouldn't be a mother just because...

Then I met DH (who is also a boy from a F'ed family. His mother had 5 children and dropped frustration over frustration on them and then left...) and together we talked LIKE CRAZY for years before jumping in.

It's difficult, tiring and it consumes you. But as someone said before, a change of life can be for better or worse. We try to do different from what we had and thank god FOR US it's been working and we manage to flow with those changes. DH helps a lot and we kind of are SAHP. 
I can't imagine all the trouble we have without all the love we put in.

So, I tell you as a child of people who weren't sure and as a parent of very wanted 3 kids: DON'T DO IT IF YOU'RE NOT 100% SURE.

It's not fair to play around with such big business as your life and from people who are not even here to choose![/quote]

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