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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Throwing someone’s eraser away is unkind but it does not make her a bully. People WAY overuse that word.[/quote]

It’s hilarious what “unkind” has to stretch to mean. [b]That 11 year old is an ahole and not likely to change.[/b] “Sweet Larla went through a phase where she unkindly trashed others’s belongings and made pointed nasty comments.”[/quote]

Because she threw someone’s eraser away? You cannot possibly be serious. Kids can be jerks- no question about that- but if I wrote off every friend/classmate of my kids’ who has done something like this over the years….I don’t think there would be many left. [/quote]

DP. Maybe the girl will change. But as long as she's being a jerk and trashing erasers, she can't come to the party. If/when she turns over a new leaf, the invites will start rolling in. [b]It's not anyone's job to keep giving her chance after chance waiting for that point in time.[/b] Friend groups are constantly evolving, everyone gets that. [/quote]

Actually, I do believe this is the adult’s role in this.  When they are only inviting a small group to dinner and a movie when they get older, then by all means exclude her.  Until then, I will act according to my moral compass, but I do realize that not everyone’s is set to North.[/quote]

My DD has been excluded from plenty of parties by some of the not so nice girls. If she wants to leave someone out who has been known to be mean to her, make the nasty snide comments, exclude her, then neither of us will lose any sleep over it.[/quote]

You do you, Mean Mom!  I know where the girls get it.[/quote]

It's not mean to not invited your daughter who torments other kids. Get her the help she needs.[/quote]

LOL!  If you only knew my kids IRL.  I know I’m doing the right thing - very confident.  If you don’t want the advice that’s fine - deal with it later.  For my older ones my later is now, so yes, inclusion in elementary is the right thing to do.[/quote]

Then maybe sit this one out if you can't relate.[/quote]

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