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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP should care about the well-being of the child but the child’s mother does not seem like a good co-parent. Insist on your husband getting therapy with the child’s mother, and then get a court order to have all communication go through a family app as is often done in cases of divorces. Communicate through the app. Meet with the mom with a third party such as with the co-parenting therapist order to make sure that communication is productive and child-focused. If the other mom is actually verbally abusive and mentally unhealthy you may be able to limit interactions just to this. If even more verbal abuse and mental instability is revealed everyone will need to think through what is best for the child[/quote] The child's mother sounds distraught. That's all. If the dad and this crazy girlfriend actually spent time reassuring her that her kid was ok, she'd settle. Instead, he's thrown some girl into the mix and is wondering why that fueled her fire. [/quote] Yes, she seems distraught to the point where she’s not acting in the best interest of her own child. Everyone needs to put the child first. If every adult acts out based on how they feel, then the poor child will be damaged[/quote]
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