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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There’s a child involved so it doesn’t get to be about you and your feelings. Best thing for kid is a civil relationship among adults. Figure out how to get there or get out of the way.

A mom has a right to know the person her kid is around all the time.[/quote]

I agree with this. Although technically the mom has no right unless there is a legal agreement that states this. As a mon, you want to know who your child is being exposed to. This whole thing sounds very bad. I have to say that I am very sympathetic towards the mom more than the OP. I am worried about the child’s exposure to someone who won’t have anything to do with the mother as well as a father who keeps secrets from his child’s mother. When there is a child involved, everything that happens must be in the best interests of the child. OP really should be playing second fiddle. As the girlfriend, I would be concerned about my boyfriend’s treatment of his child’s mother. Not prioritizing the child would raise a red flag for me.[/quote]

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