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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The mature thing to do would be to consider the child's well-being above all else and to make a sincere effort to make the situation less tense and awkward than it already is, regardless of what the mother says on SM. Take the higher road and be nice anyway, if you plan to stay in this child's life. Allowing her to push your buttons and name calling is just going to escalate tension and is counterproductive to a healthy future.[/quote] Sorry op, be the bigger person and make an effort. There is no world where it will work long term or be healthy for the child for you to be refusing to even say hello at drop off. If you want to be in this child’s life the way you are, you need to make a genuine effort to get this relationship to a better place. Let the SM stuff go and model maturity and bring it to the relationship. [/quote]
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