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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok please folks explain this to me. Is OP’s ex wife in a relationship or no? If yes why does it matter what her ex husband is doing? I am really confused here by the women taking her side. I actually feel bad for the guy the ex wife is dating. I wonder if he knows about her reaction. And I hope if he finds out to take the exit ASAP. [/quote] Because mothers will always have a problem with any other woman who gets involved with her ex because she MIGHT be in a motherly-like position to her kids. Period. I know a woman who had an AP and filed for divorce. Once the husband had moved out after being served, she immediately moved her AP into the family home with the minor children. No consultation with father of children was sought. When father expressed concern about AP/strange man moving in and living with his kids, he was told to MYOB and that her relationship was none of his business. AP was paraded around to family events and was fully accepted by woman's friends and family, because she made it a point to tell them all how happy she was with him. Divorce case wasn't even finalized. Several YEARS down the road father remarries. Mom begins to tacitly manipulate kids and tells them they no longer have to visit father since it's probably uncomfortable there with dad's new wife, that mom understands they don't like her and that's OK, that this woman cannot ever be a mom to them so don't refer to her as a step"mom," tells kids to return gifts from woman because they are inferior, etc. Complete double-standard. [/quote] Wow. I am not surprised though. All women need to tell anyone who wants to her it about their AP is that they are NOW HAPPY. That will disarm most people from criticisms. If a man were in a reverse situation he would not get the same sympathy. Women have a monopoly on happiness.[/quote]
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