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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok,

We are 1 year post divorce. The divorce surprisingly was uneventful, we used a mediator and agreed on everything. She asked for the divorce after having given me a list of things I failed to do throughout our marriage. As soon as the divorce was finalized she started dating and seemed very happy. When I pick up the kids we have quick chats and every time I ask her how she is doing she reminds me how happy she is and make a point to point out how better her life is with her new flame etc.

Now she has turned into a complete maniac. The other day I told her I was going on a date if she could watch our kids. She said No. A few hours later I got close to 20 text messages quizzing me about this girl imposing demands declaring that our kids will never see her etc. Anyways I ignored her and I thought she was just having a bad day with her new flame . Nope it’s total nightmare. She is taking me to court to revisit child custody, she also thinks that I got a promotion and make more and therefore she is going to go to court for higher child support payments. And she is now also sabotaging my time with our kids. I feel like she doesn’t want me to be happy. If I cheated on her or treated her badly during our marriage maybe I could understand her nutty behavior. Nope. She has gone crazy.

Anyone dealt or is dealing with a crazy ex spouse? When you divorce someone isn’t it over? I am just confused. This cannot be jealousy because we are not married anymore. Anyways I hope she gets back to her senses….She is 42 years old, I don’t get it….[/quote]

[b]Did get a promotion?

Dont your divorce docs take into account new salary, bonuses and COLA?

It’s pretty easy for an attorney to call your employer and find out, or get a forensic accountant involved if hiding or deferring or rolling income to avoid child support increases.

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Also, unless there is a mandatory mediation clause, OP's ex-wife is perfectly justified in going to court because OP got a promotion.  It's called "changed circumstances" and divorce lawyers make use of it all the time ... even to get other agreements not related to the "changed circumstances".[/quote]

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