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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m wondering what OP can do to lighten her load. My DH have been strategizing together how to make time for sex and it has led to a renaissance between us after a long dry spell. Things can and do shift. [/quote]

I think this is good but the unfortunate thing is that it seems like OP and his wife have already gotten themselves into this situation where she feels like he is demanding sex or pestering her for sex, and so if he says "hey how about I do more dishes so you'll have sex with me" it's going to make the whole thing feel very transactional. Like he can't just do something for her because she needs it or deserves it, it is ultimately going to seem like it's all about him and what he wants from her. And, I mean, for good reason, because that's what it would be. It doesn't sound like he is terribly concerned about making her sex life good. [/quote]
to be fair, one night of dishwashing doesn't equate to a higher libido that night.[/quote]

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