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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are your filters?  Do you have any?

I talked with five or six men, went on three first dates, two second dates, and am with the one I went on a third date with.

None of them brought up sex during texting or during the dates. I brought up sexual compatibility with the man I’m still seeing, at the end of the second date, suggesting we might want to check that out, given we really like each other.  And we started checking that out on the third date.

I was selective in filters, though, only seeing men who selected Liberal, and religion as agnostic, atheist, or spiritual. And after that only swiped on men who had already least one interest like empathy, feminism, kindness, lgbtq ally, philosophy, environmentalism, voter rights, science…[/quote]

You are kind of my target market for OLD.  I'm a conservative, divorced, no kids, lower 40s successful and non-political.  You are a dime a dozen in the NoVA area (looks being the exception).  Of course I put out liberal platitudes in my profile, since I'm in NoVA and only looking for sex, but do not mind dating for a month since I like the build up.  When I spot your flaws, mental or physical, I start turning up my conservatism until you ghost me or tell you it is not so black and white.  Had my fun, guilt is on you for dumping/ghosting me, and I move on and mostly date seriously people I meet through friends.  Glad you appreciated the dinners, and I appreciated the variety.[/quote]

Not PP but why do men literally brag about sociopathic behavior? It’s so strange, especially as a dating strategy. But then act shocked and flummoxed and like a sad puppy when their wife files for divorce, kids don’t want anything to do with them, etc. seems so emotionally stunted and sad[/quote]

Just a bored troll.[/quote]

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