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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FWIW...

I'm a 59yo male and 3 years ago I met the woman I will spend the rest of my life with.  On our third date, we started talking about sex a bit and I asked some pretty intimate questions, which she answered but later said were a little forward.  I apologized for it but what came of it was a chance to really communicate about the conversation and how we both felt, and also a chance for me to let her know that after a dead bedroom marriage, it was important to me that sex be a completely open and frequent subject of conversation.  Now it is, and this is the best and healthiest relationship either of us have ever had and the sex is amazing.

Just my 2 cents.[/quote]

I think it’s telling that even on the third date she thought you were being too forward. Most women don’t want to have these things spelled out- it ruins the fantasy, the magic, the discovery of it, etc. it’s why some of the hottest sex scenes cut out or are filmed in dim lighting where you can’t see much- mystery is incredibly seductive. Great seducers know that, but Lord knows most men aren’t great seducers. And that’s by the third date, let alone within ten minutes of meeting someone! Many modern men are struggling.[/quote]

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