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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really surprised by the varying opinions on this.

I'm most frequently in the IL camp when people complain about them here.  But not this time.  Outright lying to me about my kid is not OK.  Ever.

And to those that say that OP is rigid and uptight, that may or may not be true.  But this is where "two wrongs don't make a right" comes into play.  If OP had rigid rules and Grandma just didn't follow them, I would be in the camp of letting it slide.  But here OP had rules and Grandma, unprompted even, lied about it.  That erodes trust and is never OK.

I would have a direct conversation about it- ask her why she told you something that wasn't true.  Then wait for an answer.  [/quote]

It could be that she simply lost track of time. Maybe it was close enough to nap time or that's when the baby seemed tired. This is not the hill I would die on, so to answer the question, it would not bug me very much. The chance to get away for 24 hours was worth it. Nobody offered that to me when my kids were little.[/quote]

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