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Reply to "Do you ever take a PTO day without telling spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's a big deal - but my DH and I don't keep track of each other during the day. If he wants to meet friends or something for a long lunch, watch a game, he doesn't have to tell me. If I want to take the day off, I don't think I would tell him. It's weird. I think deep down you are craving some "me" time and it sounds like you were worried he would not give that to you if he knew - e.g. that he would want to do something "together." I think it is healthy for couples to have time apart. This is weird and controlling on his part. I would just set a boundary and not be defensive. You have the right to self-care.[/quote]
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