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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I both work FT outside the home.  I took the day off without mentioning it to him and he “caught” me when he emailed something to my work email address and got my out of office response.  Now his feelings are hurt because he says if I’d told him he could have also taken the day off and spent the day together.

I wasn’t up to anything nefarious, just wanted a quiet day with the house to myself and I love him, but his idea of how to spend the day wouldn’t match mine.  TBH I thought everyone did this sometimes - am I wrong?[/quote]

Why is he emailing you at your work address? That's uncouth, and hats worse, is discoverable in legal proceedings. 
You have a personal smartphone, right?

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Lots of government folks working in classified settings don't have access to their smart phones in the building, during the day, etc.  So yes, my husband will occasionally email me a grocery list using both of our professional emails.  I can't imagine a legal proceeding that includes messages like "don't forget we're out of cereal, and the kids won't eat the generic brand corn flakes."[/quote]

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