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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you don't want a boyfriend.  You want this guy to commit to being your son's step parent.  Its obvious.  He doesn't want to be nor should he have to be.  You're using the boyfriend label just to force the momentum of the relationship to a place where you believe he will be unable to extricate himself.

Essentially you are trying to emotionally blackmail a perfectly nice guy to be what you want him to be and to fulfill your needs.

This is the problem with dating single moms.  It always comes to this.

OP, whatever the reason your baby daddy is out of the picture,you should NEVER be dating any man with the objective that the reason you are dating him is for the goal of finding a step dad for your son.

You should assume you will be a single mom rasing your son by yourself for the rest of your life.

If you want to date men and have serious relationships do it without the notion that you are doing it to find a step father for your son.  The more you chase that the likelier it is you will scare men who might be open to it at some point, away.

You are totally objectifying this guy.  It's all about you and what you want.  Not about what he wants or doesn't want.

Other than sex, what do you even bring to the table? Independent of your needing a step father for your child, why do you think a man this one or any one, be willing to commit to you?  What are they getting out of it?  It really doesn't sound like you have much to offer aside from your own needs and unrealistic expectations.

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