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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If all three of your kids are healthy and have developed typically, you have kind of won the lotto. Think about how a kid with SN would impact the rest of your family. I wouldn’t roll those dice. [/quote] That's what made my decision at 38. We had three healthy kids and miscarried our fourth at 12 weeks. I didn't try again because I couldn't shake the fact that miscarriage often happens because nature dictates something was wrong. There are a million things that could go wrong and I could be perfectly happy with three kids. If I had felt strongly about four kids, I would have decided differently, but I viewed the fourth as more of a bonus. I would have tried for years to have my third though. I really wanted three kids [/quote]
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