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[quote=Anonymous]My mom is sort of like this, but she helps me. Her issue is that she will just sacrifice me whenever anyone else needs help in a way that inconveniences me - like offer up my time/comfort/possessions or put me in a bad spot if it allows her to help someone else. It’s led to a lot of pain, embarrassment and anger and I’ve thought about why extensively. And she thinks she isn’t doing anything wrong. What I’ve come up with is that she is to her core a people pleaser and she’s confused being a pleaser with having good manners/being kind. She has no problem sacrificing me because she thinks it’s good manners and I should do it anyway. And it’s the worst dynamic because she then thinks I’m overreacting when I get upset and just cannot see why she’s the villain in the situation - I mean after all she’s just having good manners! It’s infuriating. [/quote]
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