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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I watched my parents do nothing for my grandmother while their siblings who lived near her did everything. *all* my parents did was complain after-the-fact that the affairs had been financially mismanaged. This actually may have been true but you know what? Given that they did *nothing* to assist over a decade+ when care was needed, I think they should shut TF up and be grateful for the loving care that was provided without complaint. My aunts and uncles seem to feel the same because while they remain superficially polite to my parents, there is a huge emotional rift there. I find my parents’ attitude and behavior incomprehensible and assume it is the cherry on the top of 50+ years of family dysfunction, most of which happened before my time.[/quote] So your grandmother failed to plan and they blame your parents?!? Parents should learn from this and start planning for their later years ahead of time and STOP burdening your children.[/quote]
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