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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sense - and this is from my attractive single/divorced friends - is that if you're a good looking 45 year women, there are unlimited options for sex with randoms, including with very young men. But that comes with all the risks. It is extremely easy, however. My particular friend doesn't even bother with online. She just walks into a bar. Sometimes a hotel bar. Sometimes something different. Has no intention of seeing them again. One and done. Literally, hundreds. Can't say she's in the best place. Her judgement is terrible. But she is very attractive. Very charismatic. She prefers them young - "easier to control" are her words. She completely dissociates sex from connection. She finds it very easy to find partners. She hurts a lot of feelings.

My other equally attractive, very successful, very rich friend is having a harder time finding a partner. She's relationship oriented. She does not do casual. She's done some online dating. Here and there she has had something that lasts for a bit. But she hasn't met anyone she's genuinely passionate about. She noted that with online dating, it's so easy to get into the swipe next mindset. Nothing really gets a chance to develop organically. She's taking a timeout and is presently lusting over her housepainter. But she did note that the very few dateable 45-55 men genuinely go younger for relationships. She's not attracted to older or the dregs. But she needs connection to be intimate so she's not doing randoms. She's no longer really actively pursuing things. [/quote]

Like a PP mentioned it’s easy to find men to sleep with if that’s your thing because the bar is so low.  You don’t need to be compatible in any way other than physically and even then there’s wiggle room.   Finding a genuine connection with someone is much much more difficult obviously.   Your relationship friend should jump back into the dating apps.  There are men that are looking for a long term relationship and genuinely understand that dating younger is not the best way to find a like minded person. 
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