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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree the issue is that OP and others in this circle are catty b's who like to ask seemingly innocuous questions of certain people and then twist it and gossip about it to trash them behind their back. I worked in a place like this once and here's how you'd figure out what was going on and become *private* about seeming unimportant stuff: Monday: You have a lighthearted conversation with a colleague about lunch, and tell them about how you're excited about the salad you brought that day because you've been on a big kick with trying out new combos and ingredients. Tuesday-Wednesday: Colleague eagerly asks about your lunch each day and expresses an interest in your salads, seems enthusiastic. Thursday: You walk into the kitchen at lunch and colleague is talking to someone else when you walk in but they both become silent when they see you and even though you don't know what they were talking about, you feel weird. Friday: Someone you barely know stops you in the hallway to say they heard "all about" your salads and wanting to know what "crazy" combo you brought in that day. Does any of this matter? No. Does it make you feel good? Also no. And that is how you learn to offer non-committal or vague responses to questions, because you don't feel like feeding a rumor mill so active and nasty that people sit around gossiping about what Kate in accounting packed for lunch on Thursday.[/quote] You do realize that you sound insane, I hope. [/quote]
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