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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, does your conscience prick you at all about potentially blowing up someone else’s family? Doing this your own doesn’t seem to be a deterrent, but the other guy has a wife and kids. Frankly, it sounds like you want the endorphin rush and are rewriting history a bit to justify it. What concrete actions have you taken with respect to your DH yo address your issues - or did this become a bigger issue when you met someone else who turned you on? I don’t see how the “once or twice a year” with the other guy would make your life so much better that it’s worth what you are risking (your marriage, your self-respect, your kids’ respect, your family life, etc.) but do your own risk calculation.  Seems like if it’s only once or twice a year it’s really just about the excitement and self-gratification, not really a substitute for a low sex marriage. Be honest with yourself.[/quote]

+1,000

This is the most intelligent post on the thread, OP.

For your sake, for your marriage's sake, for your own self-respect later -- please re-read the post above and think hard about what PP asks you in it. Can you be as brutally honest with yourself, about your own real motivations and lack of communication with DH, as you need to be? Can you step back from what PP rightly identifies as the endorphin rush of Mr. Take-Me-Now's attention, and objectively see the larger picture of potentially blowing up your kids' lives, your marriage, etc., before you proceed? (And BTW, even if you are empty nesters, yes, your adult kids' lives would be affected more than you can realize right now, in case "empty nest" was one of your justifications to yourself.) [/quote]

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